Of all the girls I've shagged, whether they've been gf's, one night stands, or booty calls, there is something I've noticed they all have in common... They all liked to be physically dominated.....or maybe put in another way.....liked to feel the strength and power of a man taking charge. (which makes me wonder how 11secFox ever got laid) Whether you're "making love", randomly sexing, or having a quickie in your car, at some point in time during the course of action, they want to know that you're the man. Maybe this is common sense stuff, but I thought it could be something that is overlooked.... So, what do I mean by this mumbo jumbo? As I pointed out in the "Tips s3xtion" thread with kissing, you have to know when to do this. You can't just hop on top and start muscling your way around and abusing the vag from the word "go". You have to listen to her breathing, vocalizations, hip movements, leg placement, all that jazz, first.... Once you can tell she's building to the final O-gasm and not just laying there enjoying the ride, that's when you switch on the "I am all that is man" thrusts. Depending on what position we're when she starts building up to that magical moment, I'll grab certain body parts with most of my strength and really exagerate the movement that got her going in the first place. Usually it's hips, ass, or neck/shoulders. Guys, never boobies at this point unless you can control yourself so you don't squeeze them like you're making fresh orange juice. They have feelings too. Anyways, at the same time you're physically taking control with your upperbody, continue to thrust just a bit harder and deeper than before until it's damn near a full body workout from flexing, pushing, pulling, controlling her, whatever need be. I find that most the time I do this is when her hands really start to explore my arms, chest, back, or ass. Presumably because she wants to feel the raw power and muscle of a man as she's in her most vulnerable, womanly state. Again, the key here is timing. You can't get to your "full body flex/I'm in control" too soon or you will burn out before she achieves the O. If that happens, you just kill the mood for all parties involved....or at least until you can work back up to it again. My theory comes in here... No matter what "style" of sex you're planning on having (sensual vs. buck nasty), something gets triggered in both the male and female brain that goes back to our animalistic instincts. Women WANT to vulnerable and weak, and they want a strong and powerful man to take control....(during this time of sexting that is). They want to know that the guy they're boning is the alpha male and would be able to protect her in a life threatening situation and not just be some fragile little pussy hiding in the corner. Most likely, neither people are going to be thinking these things while it's happening, but rather just the engrained "instincts" we all have. So, if you're flabby and out of shape, get your ass to the gym, get in batter shape, and start layin the wood with some authority!!
mmm. In a sense.. Most like to feel weight pressed down on them as well.
Nature channel.
I can't believe you took the time to write out that whole thing when I'm pretty sure it's something that every man on the planet who's had sex knows.
^+1 and I can't believe that I wasted time reading that whole thing.
I feel like you just had sex for the first time and discovered how to pleasure a woman
^all this.
Originally Posted by hypnotix I feel like you just had sex for the first time and discovered how to pleasure a woman was about to post that bitches like to be bitches but dont like to think they're bitches
Im one that likes that "beasting" of the hoohaw right about the time I start towards the big O. firm grp on the hips and PULL me and Im happy
Originally Posted by hypnotix I feel like you just had sex for the first time and discovered how to pleasure a woman SO WHAT IF I JUST DID!!!!
