just like the title says. My fiancee thinks its "gross". How do i change her mind?
whats that old chick on TV that has the sex show? Sue or some shit... do a youtube search and she can tell you how! best of luck...
It's easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission..
Originally Posted by 2k5adam It's easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission.. LOL....
^ True dat. This way you'd really know she loves you if she still goes through with the marriage.
Start with a pinky at near orgasm. At that point she will relate the orgasm to the pinky. The key is to be consistent and work your way up through the finger system. By thumb, she'll be asking for it. **Disclaimer** There is a chance that this may result in you getting kicked in the balls.
^ill try that
Actually the pinky idea isn't a bad one...but don't do it near orgasm...all you'll do is ruin it for her...and then she'll be pissed. Just start by messing with the area a little bit with your fingers, while you're going down there...don't try to insert anything yet. You have to let the muscles relax...the whole idea is its exit only right, so the muscles aren't used to anything going in. Then gradually work up, once she's used to there being something near it. But seriously, this is important. ONLY USE THE TIP of your little finger, don't try and stick the whole thing in at once. And make sure its lubed. Do that for a little bit. Get her used to that. Either be going down, or have her be using the vibe. That will keep her relaxed. Then gradually go deeper, and increase the diameter. When its finally time, that she's comfortable, and you're comfortable, and you've been playing around down there, (I'd say give it a month of constant attention, in very very small increments) go about your normal business...get her all ready, then blow your load. Seriously, another very important step. After your first one, you'll be smaller, and limper. Then once you're up again, position her on top. Let her lower herself onto you. That way, she can know if its hurting (it still might) and if it is she can stop it herself. Again, lube is the magic word. Ultimately, she'll realize that she's got just as good, if not better chance of getting off that way, and then no session of bow chicka bow wow will be complete without a little booty play. *Please also keep in mind, if you're not going to let her stick a finger up there, then don't plan on her letting YOU do it. Fair's fair. **edit...I hope to GOD my company doesn't use a key tracking program.
^ yupp I need some alone time now
