so i started this new job 2 weeks ago. very good opportunity, making some good cash, and learning a lot. so far it has been excellent and i honestly cannot foresee any thing happening that would make me not keep this job other than going to school or another one coming along. there is this one girl that i work with a lot, and at the end of last weekend and thus far this week, she has been VERY flirty. she was asking me last friday what i was doing over the weekend, and i hadn't picked up on it completely at that time, as i just told her i already had plans with friends (which i legitimately did). today hit the pinnacle thus far as she texted me while she was out at lunch and asked me if i wanted her to bring me back anything. i told her i was fine but asked her if anyone ever cares if we surf cnn or something like it when things are slow (today was literally dead). she responded that she usually "looks at lingerie" when she is bored with a at the end of the text. then when she got back i was working on something and she came over and started chatting. she asked me if i have a girlfriend and we chatted for a little bit and then she informed me that she was single as well (i didn't even touch the subject after explaining that i didn't). the conversation then moved to weekend activities again and she asked if i had anything planned.... i mean at this point the red flags are going up all over the place for me. this girl is smoking hot, at least a 9. tall, brunette, very smart, very hot. she has not come off as the type of girl like this at all, and i don't even think she is a slut. we have just honestly hit it off really well and if it wasn't for work this would be a non issue. my question is this how do i remain polite but resist hanging out, because i have been known to think with the pistol and not with the mind, especially when alcohol is involved? if i do see her out (she mentions she goes to some of the same places as i do), this is going to get very interesting. she is honestly a very cool girl and i would have hung out with her for sure had these events not transpired today, but now i just don't trust myself or her...
whats your concern? i thought relationships at work was only taboo if it was someone above/under you? or are you just worried about the awkward moment after when she realizes you have a small penis and you don't want the other girls at work to know?
wait. for two reasons. u can build it more and figure out if she's crazy. u aren't going anywhere. and neither is she. if she wants u u that badly waiting a bit won't matter and u can continue to flirt. the anticipation is most of the fun part. ike foreplay, but mental. also because u just started.......don't be that creepy guy. every work has atleast one...the guy who hits on everyone. not saying that's necessarily what's happening here (its not) but it will look like that because she's been there a while and u haven't....so it would prob look like it's all on u. if u choose to be that guy............wait a bit. not less then after month after u start.....
Go out with her. If you end up bangin her then it's a good night. Just be sure to post naked pics of her here.
